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Collaboration

The Best Ways to Facilitate Collaborative Conversation With Your Team

How does your team communicate?

How does their conversation flow? 

How effective is your leadership in facilitating the conversation?

In this article, we will explore the previously recorded conversation between facilitators and coaching experts who lead their teams to collaborative conversations, followed by a series of questions and answers that flowed from that conversation.

The Art & Science of Facilitation: The Book Tour

During the months of January and February 2021, TeamCatapult hosted a 5-part series Virtual Book Tour to celebrate the publishing of The Art & Science of Facilitation. 

We invited industry leaders, agile coaches, expert facilitators and TeamCatapult faculty to have conversations about facilitation. 

One of the Virtual Book Tour stops happened on January 28, 2021 with guests Ahmed Sidky, Deborah Grayson Riegel, Lyssa Adkins & Tricia Broderick. 

The title for that conversation was Leadership is a conversation: “The Importance of Facilitating Collaborative Conversations.”

The replay of their conversation can be played right here! 


Wasn’t that a great and insightful conversation about facilitation?

This Collaborative Conversation Sparked Questions!

While the conversation flowed between these experts and a great many topics were discussed, there were some questions that came into the chat! Our guest expert panel attempted to answer as many questions as possible, however, they were limited by time.

We’ve gathered the unanswered questions and asked the panel participants to help us answer them for you, our readers. 

Conversations That Connect: What’s In A Name?

Question: There is such a huge difference between ‘conversation’ (as in making conversation) and this type of conversation, where we make actual connections and create some sort of magic… I’m looking for a good word that signifies the second type. Is conversation ‘enough’?

Answer: I call it skillful or generative (by Otto Shrumer) reenacting the same thing versus where new ideas are emerging.

Answer: I don’t have a single word.  For me, I summarize this as a space where connection, trust, collaboration, and engagement produces new possibilities (i.e. magic).

How To Have a Conversation About Bias in the Workplace

Question: Sometimes, it is not just about the color of your skin. Traditional management is autocratic. The top management does not even want to hear the insights coming from subordinates. As a subordinate, how will you handle this?

Answer: There are many factors that can create bias in the workplace.  In addition, there are many legacy “best practices” that impede high performing teams focused on knowledge work.  Personally, I try to never view anything I’m doing as “managing up”.  The minute I have the mindset of this, chances are high that the results will not be favorable to anyone involved.  I try to focus on being transparent and vulnerable with the leadership experiments/insights.  With this approach, I’m reaching out for partners in feedback and participation with my experiments/insights.  

How Should Leaders Learn to Facilitate? 

Question: Traditional Leaders often experienced that they had to be strong, know it best and decide at the end. To facilitate it like you suggest Marsha, a different stance would be needed, right? How and where do you advise this should come from? Inner work maybe? Economic pressure from competitors? Joy and the will to move on, vastly…maybe breaking things?

Answer: It does take inner work and the doorway will be varied. A different perspective for people around that leader to give space to learn it. We have to give them space to grow and to change habits. Leaders will be transparent.  People give leaders permission to not have the answer, which can lead to leaders allowing the folks to find the answer as well. It’s okay to say “I don’t know.”

What is the Value of Facilitation?

Question: Please share an example of an idea or story that you have found useful to introduce the value of facilitation to a skeptical decision maker.

Answer: Talk about what the leader wants to achieve.  How’s it look?  How to set it up?  What’s the best that could possibly occur?  The more we expose and look for approval, the more we invite skepticism.  “Our focus today is to trust what’s happening…” Give the right to pass (let adults be adults): choice and freedom.

Answer: One time, I highlighted the various challenges the team was facing in making a decision that was collective and lasting.  For example, the person who didn’t participate but vetoed later, the person who consumed most of the time talking, or the person who felt completely ignored.  All of these challenges (and many more), hinder the ability to become a high performing team to deliver the best results.  As this is the shared goal and people can observe the challenges, I offered to try a different approach…facilitation, to engage all the voices effectively. In this example, facilitation training was brought in quickly after.  

How Can You Learn or Enhance Your Facilitation Skills?

If you are intrigued, excited or eager to get started to learn or enhance your facilitation skills, you’ve come to the perfect place! 

TeamCatapult has been training facilitators for years! 

Here are several upcoming opportunities for you:

  1. Virtual Facilitation Masterclass  March 18-19, 2021
  2. Agile Team Facilitation Workshop  March 22-26, 2021
  3. Advanced Facilitation Workshop  April 28-May 5, 2021

Join us for one, or all, Virtual Workshops!

These workshops are a great stepping stone to our cohort!

Learn more about our Coaching Agility from Within ‘A Cohort Journey to Masterful Agile Team Coaching’ and apply to join in May 2021. 

 

Is Collective Power of the Group the Best Avenue to Team Facilitation?

Team Facilitation: Who Are We Facilitating?

While listening and watching one of the five Virtual Book Tour stops for ‘The Art & Science of Facilitation‘, one of the participants had one of those moments of clarity that we might describe as ‘an aha-moment’.

Art Moore of Clear Systems, LLC was listening in on my conversation with Ahmed Sidky, Deborah Grayson Riegel, Lyssa Adkins and Tricia Broderick. The topic of that Virtual Book tour stop was: Leadership is a conversation: The importance of facilitating collaborative conversations. 

Here is what happened in Art’s own words.

Who Are We Facilitating?

By: Art Moore


We talk a lot about the collective power of the group.  The whole is greater than the parts.  Believe in the ability of the team.  These are great principles.  And yet I have always sensed they were somehow incomplete, not the exact story.

I can only say this in retrospect, after a recent moment of clarity.  It happened while I was sitting in on one of Marsha Acker’s virtual book tour events for her new book, The Art and Science of Facilitation. She and the astonishing panel she’d assembled[1] had begun talking about achieving a level of co-creation; and the missing piece fell in place.

For me, that missing piece, the underlying truth, is that a great facilitator, leader, human, starts first with belief in the individual; that one person and the fountain of creative potential they possess.

Belief in people really means belief in many individuals and, as individuals, their ability to co-create.  It is each individual rising above himself to create with others who are also creating.  As the panel said, this is not “mere” collaboration.  It is not just more, but different.  It is each reaching fully and their ideas co-mingling with others who are doing the same.

The orchestra analogy is apt.  This viewpoint and approach, pushed out to its boundary, promoted out as a model of leadership and working, establishes a new North Star not just for individual leaders but for human society. “Here is what I am tremendously interested in.  Are you interested in it too?  Let’s go together.”  There is an idea, but it can be fully co-owned.

So we’re not really honoring “the group.”  We’re believing in something much more powerful.  The ability of individuals to co-create.  It is no small skill.  It is, I believe, the skill, the one that will elevate us to the society we are capable of becoming together.

[1] Marsha Acker, Ahmed Sidky, Deborah Grayson Riegel, Lyssa Adkins and Tricia Broderick


Are you curious about the rest of this conversation?
We recorded all of it and it’s available right here!

Our gratitude goes out to Art Moore for sharing his experience with us.

Art Moore, Author

Art Moore

Mr. Moore’s career spans software development, practice management, methodology development, training and strategic consulting, in both federal and private sectors. He has provided industry thought leadership in multiple disciplines, from data warehousing, to business rules, requirements engineering and Agile, and brings decades of experience in building high performing teams. That is the focus of Clear Systems LLC, which he founded in 2005, providing Lean/Agile training, coaching, and transformation at the team and organization level. (CSP, CSPO, CSM, CAL1, Scrum@Scale, LeSS, SPC, KMP II, ICP-ATF, ICP-ACC, ICP-BAF, Certified ICAgile Instructor

Republished with permission


Did you know: TeamCatapult has been training facilitators for years! 

Here are several upcoming opportunities for you:

  1. Virtual Facilitation Masterclass  March 18-19, 2021
  2. Agile Team Facilitation Workshop  March 22-26, 2021
  3. Advanced Facilitation Workshop  April 28-May 5, 2021

Join us for one, or all, Virtual Workshops!

These workshops are a great stepping stone to our cohort.

Learn more about our Coaching Agility from Within ‘A Cohort Journey to Masterful Agile Team Coaching’ and apply to join in May 2021. 

How to Lead Effective Collaboration with Agile Teams

With the recent publication of the book ‘The Art & Science of Facilitation How to Lead Effective Collaboration with Agile Teams’ TeamCatapult is proud to present the Virtual Book Tour to promote this new book and its important message.

This Virtual Book Tour consists of several online ‘Virtual Book Tour Stops’ where casual conversations about facilitation take place with guest speakers.

Each speaker invited to participate in any of these virtual events is knowledgeable about both Agile and Facilitation and an expert in their field. We invite you join us for this book tour and learn more about ‘The Art & Science of Facilitation’

The Start of a Virtual Book Tour: Stories of Facilitation

During the first stop of the tour, we met Teamcatapult faculty as they told personal stories of facilitation. 

The full conversation with Marsha Acker, Antoinette Coetzee, David Levine, Jeff Hackert, Kari McLeod, Kay Harper, Larissa Caruso and William Strydom can be watched in its entirety via this link.

These stories of facilitation yielded not only a vibrant and stimulating conversation, but also several follow up questions about facilitation. As is common with webinars, virtual events or panel discussions limited on time, the speakers didn’t have an opportunity to answer all questions in the moment.

However, we believe these questions need to be answered. The team thought so too!

Thanks to TeamCatapult faculty, we now have not just questions, but amazing insightful answers as well! 

Here are 7 FAQs questions about facilitation!

1. Facilitating Outside of Work, Can It be Done?

Question: I’d be curious to hear folk’s opinions on facilitating outside of work – as a parent, as a spouse, at my book club?

Answers:

Jeff: I find these skills to be useful in nearly every act of group communication.

Marsha: I agree with Jeff, I use aspects of facilitation skills in almost every aspect of my life – home, work, girl scout meetings, volunteer efforts, etc. 

Kari: Yes, and being clear about your role when you do so is key. For example, facilitate a discussion as a parent, if you’re truly willing to be neutral. I have to remind myself of this one! I attended a virtual memorial service in November, and there wasn’t a facilitator. It was awkward. So, I asked if I could help guide the discussion. Once there was some process and people started speaking, I stepped back as a facilitator and the conversation was more organic.

David: Me too. Recently, at a Home Association meeting, I found myself recognizing a structural dynamics pattern and was able to steer the conversation to something more collaborative and productive (Science over Art…)

2. How is a Facilitation Book Different From a Communication Book?

Question: Why do you think this book is necessary at this time, how would you distinguish these books from countless books on communication?

Answers: 

Marsha: There are hundreds of books out there on facilitation and communication techniques – and they are very helpful (I have many of them on my shelf). The intention of this book is more about what beliefs, in our own mindset, will support those endless amounts of techniques and make them more effective. In the agile movement I think we are at the place where there is a general understanding of the need for collaboration, that coaching skills and facilitation skills support this, and I see many teams that just apply the techniques without doing the mindset work that would allow them to make those techniques more impactful and meaningful. I think we are at the place to collectively deepen our work on how we collaborate together.

Antoinette: The reason why I love working with Marsha is because I resonate so much with her belief that facilitation is as much who you are and how you are being, as it is about what you do. I have a number of really great books on facilitation that have helped me in my own journey, most of them have a section of how you show up, but the majority of the book is devoted to the act of facilitation. The combination of Agile, facilitation and Structured Dynamics is where I think this book really helps facilitators grow awareness of what is happening in them, in the room, and in the group they are facilitating. 

Kari: I echo both Marsha and Antoinette, and I’ll build on what they wrote to say that this book grows how we’re being as facilitators which is the foundation of what we’re doing as facilitators.

3. Can Facilitation Be Helpful for Non-Agile Teams?

Question: I know that the book is targeted to Agile Teams but do you feel it is applicable beyond Agile Teams and why?

Answers:

Larissa: I would argue that this is even more important for non Agile teams. Because Agile teams are somewhat used to concepts of collaboration, co-creation, and facilitating meetings. If you can bring a little bit of that mindset you find in the book to meetings, you will see a huge 180 in productivity and engagement.

Kari: Much of the foundation of this book lies in professional coaching and facilitation as well as Structural Dynamics–none of which have Agile as their foundation. The facilitation mindset you’ll explore in this book uses Agile teams as a lens, and I encourage you to adopt the mindset and look through other lenses.

David: Only you need to be Agile to make this stuff work. I have facilitated many many meetings using the concepts from this book without the “A” word ever coming up.

4. What is the Role of Intentional Distractions During Meetings?

Question: I am curious what folks think about intentional “distractions” – ie pipe cleaners, legos, snacks

Answers:

Antoinette: These items are really useful for people (like me) who need to be kinetically busy in order to concentrate. Completely voluntary of course!

Marsha: For me, it depends on the topic and work to be done in the meeting. If it’s detailed thinking work and I’m using tables, then I might use ‘fidget items’. If the topic is more about how the team is working and relationship based or if I think there is a certain level of ‘heat’ in the conversation I remove tables (if we are in the room) and really ask people to be present to the conversation and give their full attention to reading the room and what’s happening for them and others. 

Kari: David, you probably know I love having these manipulatives in training, MeetUps, and certain meetings and events. I have had participants thank me for bringing them, saying they wished they had had things to fiddle with in school, college, and at work. I have learned to make it clear that they are on the table for them to use (i.e., we’re not saving them for an activity), and, as Antoinette pointed out, that they can use them or not. I also point out that they can take whatever they created with them (I don’t want the Play-Doh back!). And, I agree with Marsha, I don’t use them if it’s a meeting where participants need to be IN the conversation.

David: A tool in the kit, best used in service to some purpose. Useful for some meetings, not for others.

5. Facilitation Goals and KPIs: Can We Measure Performance?

Question: What are your thoughts on organisations wanting to measure the effectiveness of a facilitator, defining some sort of goals and KPIs for facilitation? How could or should we measure performance?

Answers:

Jeff: Focusing on outcomes and measures will help to improve our practice. Of course you have to be careful that the focus is on improving communication, team participation, and process vs say moving a leadership agenda. Make sense?

Marsha: I would suggest asking the group to evaluate how well they think they currently do in: hearing all voices; talking about difficult subjects; raising concerns; meeting deadlines; making decisions; etc.  Ask them what they want to improve and what that would look like. Then in 6 months ask them to rate these same items again and see where they are. Getting the team to take ownership of their communication is critical, facilitation will help you (and them) achieve the outcomes they want to achieve. 

Antoinette: I would also add that looking at the quality of solutions and the stickiness of decisions and whether they are improving might be useful. 

6. How Can We Uphold the Agile Mindset While Facilitating?

Question: There is a chapter in the book on upholding the Agile Mindset while facilitating. I would love to hear everyone’s perspective on that.

Answers:

Antoinette: I will answer by defining the Agile mindset as consisting of three beliefs : the Complexity belief, the People belief, and the Proactivity belief: 

  1. The Complexity belief says that when we work with Complex problems we can never predict the impact of an action. As facilitators we plan, and then we dance in the moment. We are not married to our plan. We need to facilitate the group in front of us, wherever they choose to go.
  2. The People belief helps us to make space for every voice including the unpopular ones, believe in the wisdom of the group, and value every contribution equally.
  3. The Proactivity belief has us asking for feedback and looking for continuous improvements.

As facilitator I both plan an agenda with activities that creates the opportunity for all of the above to be possible, as well as be present to what is happening in the moment to change tack if necessary.

I would actually argue that, maybe with the exception of the last belief, facilitators have been doing this all along. Traditional facilitators just tended to be a little more heavy on the documentation! 🙂 

David: It is as good a practice as there is. If you haven’t been exposed to it, please read Carol Dweck’s little book called Mindset.

7. Any Tips for Virtual Facilitation?

Question: Can you provide some tips to read the room when facilitating virtually?

Answers:

Jeff: My tips: mics on, cameras on – make it safe for folks to be present

Marsha: I agree with Jeff, these two things, when practiced by everyone in the meeting can significantly change the nature of ‘safety’ in the meeting. We have several blogs about this as well. Check these out:

How Do You Facilitate for Unexpected and Unplanned Magic?

How To Best Guide Your Team With Virtual Team Facilitation

How To Lead with Virtual Team Facilitation

Why We hold Check-in and Check-out as a Sacred Space

8 Tips to Successful Virtual Team Facilitation

Antoinette: Yes! I also contract with people explicitly to make their wishes known more openly than when they are in a physical space. And it is good to ask for DISAGREEMENT rather than agreement, eg. “who has something else” instead of “does everyone agree”. Knowing you, Naresh, I can also say trust your intuition and don’t rely on your eyes: 🙂 And that is actually for everyone – we rely too much on our eyes when our hearts tell us more about what is going on in the virtual space. It’s a muscle we need to develop more.

David: Agree. I find that scanning the gallery view is helpful. People get tired more easily when virtual. Don’t confuse fatigue with lack of interest.

The Art & Science of Facilitation 

Don’t miss out on reading the book, or the tour: If you lead teams of any size, it’s time to become a true facilitator — in every sense of the word.

Learn how to lead effective collaboration with agile teams!

We will leave you with these last words about the book: 

The Art and Science of Facilitation is your guide to moving your team further forward using the groundbreaking Five Guiding Principles of the Facilitation Stance. For anyone ready to lead with self-awareness and group insight, this book is designed to help you navigate group dynamics so that your team can work more efficiently and effectively in a truly collaborative environment.

How To Be Agile, Mobilize Your Team and Enjoy a Holiday Feast

Home For the Holidays!

What a crazy year 2020 has been for all of us. Many of us in the USA who used to go into an office every day to work, now work from home. We have had to come to grips with the fact that the holiday season will look a lot different this year. While the holidays would normally spur a flurry of office get-togethers, secret gift exchanges with colleagues and maybe a special holiday office party, this year things will be different. 

A Small Group of People To Spend Time With

As we approach the end of this turbulent year, what we have left is time with our ‘quaranteam’ those close friends and family who have become part of your social bubble. Where we would normally celebrate and party in person, we’ve had to ‘make due’ with virtual group chats, Zoom celebrations and our immediate family circles, at least that’s the case for most of us here in the United States. 

While we miss being with colleagues and our team, what we truly are missing out on is being able to put into practice all the things we know and love about team leadership. 

It has been a challenge – but not impossible – to ‘read the room’ virtually. It’s harder to keep up with friends and colleagues, but most of all it’s been really hard for those with newly gained leadership skills to put those skills into practice, virtually. 

Putting the Agile Principles You Love Into Practice

TeamCatapult recently launched a second cohort “Agility from Within – A Cohort Journey to Masterful Agile Team Coaching” to help Agile coaches gain true mastery in Agile team coaching through practice. You can read more about this cohort, and future cohorts here.

Putting agile principles learned in a workshop into practice to gain mastery, is a long-term process.

While you can learn concepts and practice skills of agile team coaching, real mastery is grown through practice – with real people and real teams in your real world.

When we think about training we tend to think of formal workshops, leveraging theories of adult learning, but training can also be in the moment, sharing context appropriate knowledge on the spot. The right information, at the right time, in the right way.

This has been a challenge for so many of us in 2020!

As you are at home with ‘real people’, we want to look at this Agile Principle from the Agile manifesto “Build projects around motivated individuals. Give them the environment and support they need, and trust them to get the job done.” and give you a fun home holiday challenge! 

Using Project Management at Home 

Whether you are a software developer, an agile coach, a scrum master or executive; if you are already familiar with and using agile methodologies at work, we challenge you to take these skills ‘home for the holidays’ this year to gain a bit of mastery! 

➡️ Kids love it.

➡️ Teenagers respond to it.

➡️ Spouses or Significant Others will be grateful for it.

Don’t just take our word for it, if you have a few minutes, check out this amazing TED talk. 

Family Stand Up Meetings

Can your family be agile, too? Can you create an agile team at home and use agile methods to get a holiday meal prepped, served and cleaned up? Can you take the stress out of prepping for a family holiday meal? Will your family trust you?

We challenge you to try using agile development techniques at home. This should be a fun assignment for you – and might make a great case study as well!

Going back to the agile philosophy of ‘empowering individuals and teams through trust and autonomy’, here is the challenge.

Call your first ever family stand up meeting with these words; ‘Let’s cook a family dinner!’ 

Team Members in the Kitchen

Before you can get started though you will need a buy-in from your ‘development team’. 

  • Some would rather be watching their favorite football team.
  • Another would prefer to watch a holiday movie.
  • Yet everyone needs to eat! 

What type of working environment do you have in your kitchen?

Your (family) agile team under normal circumstances would need to be carefully built to include the right people and skill sets to get the job done! Yet for this project, you get who you get! Everyone will be on your team!

Next, responsibilities need to be clearly defined before the beginning of this project. 

Here is what you need.

“The right people and skill sets” that means you need:

  • Hungry people willing to eat.
  • Someone who can read recipes.
  • Someone who can chop, peel and rinse.
  • Someone who can cook.
  • Someone who can set a table
  • Someone who can clean up.

Putting this Project Into Practice

Lay out all tasks associated with this holiday meal, and in order of importance. Then each family member will start working on what needs to be done.

Once the work has begun, there’s no place for micromanagement or hand holding. Trust the process. Trust your family. Have fun! 

Reducing Stress and Gaining Quality Time

We’d love to know if your family can be agile and come up with a holiday feast! The outcome of this challenge of course is for you as a family to have more time together, and less stress over simple tasks that can and should be shared.

Everyone eats. Everyone cooks. Everyone wins.

It seems so simple yet as we all know, that’s not always the norm in our kitchens, is it? 

Moving Forward. Working From Home in 2021

TeamCatapult, like most other companies, shifted to online workshops and virtual teaching in 2020. This brought new challenges yet also wonderful opportunities to show the world the magic of what effective collaboration can look like. 

We applied the same advanced techniques we teach in the Virtual Facilitation Masterclass to bring our workshop attendees the very best virtual experience in all our workshops.

We, like you, have been missing that magic of being together, of seeing each other, of being able to look someone in the eye, or sensing that things are good (or bad). 

Like you, we are at home, in our ‘quaranteam pods’, doing our best to hold onto old and at the same time, create new holiday traditions, a family feast perhaps? 

We wish you Happy Holidays and the best home-cooked meals your family can prepare!

Marsha & All of us at Team Catapult

How Courage Can Create Safety

Research shows that the number one contributor to team effectiveness is psychological safety. According to research by individuals like Amy Edmondson and the Project Aristotle study by Google, this means that it is critical to create a space where team members feel safe to take risks and be vulnerable in front of each other.

Let All Voices Be Heard!

Leaders (that’s you!) are able to use skills like facilitation and coaching to help create spaces where all voices can be heard and where people feel safe to take risks without fear of retribution. With leadership and guidance, it becomes the collective work of everyone on the team to create a safe space.

While psychological safety is something that we strive for in teams, it’s not something that every team currently has. So I am often asked about what can be done in circumstances where safety is missing. My response is to encourage leaders to take the first step. 

What if our work as leaders is:

  • To be comfortable being uncomfortable?
  • To take risks in service of others?
  • To say what needs to be said, even if it feels scary? 
  • To find our authentic voice in order to help others see what we see?

Name What You See Happening

One of the most powerful things you can do for a team is to name, in a morally neutral way, what you see happening. It might be to simply say, “I’m confused about what direction we are going.” Other examples might include,

  • “I notice that we have been talking about this same topic for three weeks and that we have been unable to come to a decision.” 
  • “I’m not sure what you want me to do; I need help.”
  • “I have things that I would like to contribute, but I wonder if they would be valuable here.”

The Speech Act of Bystand

David Kantor calls this the speech act of “bystand.” It’s a vocal action taken in a conversation to bridge competing ideas or name what’s happening. It can be a powerful speech act for creating a shift in the conversation, but it is often underutilized or inactive in team communication.

Making a bystand is not about advocating for your solution, metaphorically poking someone in the eye, making a judgmental statement, personally attacking, or telling someone what’s “wrong” with their actions. It’s simply about naming what you see or what you are experiencing in a manner that holds no judgment.

When you model the speech act of observing without judgment as a leader, you help create a safe space for your team to join you in moving the conversation forward. Though it might feel uncomfortable at first, it is your demonstration of courage that can be an important first step in cultivating a team culture where diverse voices feel heard and acknowledged.

Here Are Some Reflection Questions To Help You Take Action To Create Safety:

  • Have you had the impulse to say something 3 or more times? I have a general rule about looking for patterns versus reacting in the moment. So notice what’s happening and look for a pattern.
  • What is your intention? Does saying something further your own agenda or is it in service to the teams’ agenda? Both may be valuable, but be clear for yourself about which it is.
  • What’s at risk if you speak up? Sometimes we create fear for ourselves by making up a worse outcome than what really might happen. Be honest with yourself about the answer to this.
  • What’s at risk if you remain silent? This is about looking at the bigger picture. What opportunity might you or this team be missing?

Your Turn!

Where do you need to be courageous today? Someone has to go first.

If not you, then who?

Marsha

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